• Books,  my view

    What Cha Reading?

    Happy Hump day? I hope the week is bumping along fine for you. For me, it’s going a little too fast to keep up with especially with all the work I have to do. But such is my normal life so there it is.

    During my not so work-y times I have quite a few things on my Kindle that I’m flipping between and I’m way down on the library list waiting for Gone Girl to come in which I’m excited to read. Though when I think about it, with all I have on my to-do list I  probably should be reading something more like what Dear Marilyn is reading here and work on my Thinking Ability, sharpen my skills a bit.

    That said, I’m not, and reading for pure enjoyment and throwing the question out to you… What cha reading? Has something really captured you that you’d like to share with the group?

     

    Best,

    Kwana

  • motherhood,  my view

    Love On The Road…

    The DH and I took our love on the road this weekend heading up to the kid’s schools for a visit. It’s so strange seeing them out in the world and navigating things as best as they can on their own. They have to come outside to let us up and into their space. Once inside, here and there are the tell-tale signs of a hasty clean up. You look around and see how things have been moved around from when you first dropped them off and how they have put their own decorative touches on the place showing off their personality and not yours.

     

    But still you’re a parent and you ask, “Is there anything you need? Anything at all?, looking for some reason to stay around a bit, add your mark. Then you find it. “More hangers! A new pencil sharpener! Let’s go shopping.”

    So you take them out to get your little trivial items, grab a bite to eat before you say goodbye once again. Leaving them to their little rooms where you don’t know what times they come in, or how much they study but all you can do at night, at home from your far away bed, is say a prayer that they are there and all is well with the world.

     

    Best,

    Kwana

     

    posters thanks to the kids.

  • blogs,  my view,  Through The Lens

    Time to Get Lost in the Season…

    Happy Friday and Welcome this weekend to Autumn! This is my favorite time of year. I can officially slip on boots and pull out my collection of black turtlenecks without fear of looking like one of those overdressed, “are-those-long -sleeves-you’re-wearing?!”  overly cold women. And I can sneer (not really , ok maybe) at all of the die-hard breezy top and denim short hangers on-ers like the summer dreamers that they really are. Time to get with the program and bundle up ladies, grab your nearest hot beverage and get with the chronic chillsters like me. Come on take a seat and relax!

    And speaking of chilling, I’m chilling today with my buddy Maureen McGowan and the ladies over at Get Lost in Story where I’m answering a few questions and giving away a copy of THROUGH THE LENS! Stop on by and check it out if you have a chill moment. Thanks.

     

    So tell me what do you love about the Fall season?

     

    Best,

    Kwana

     

    image from here

     

  • life,  my view

    In the Dark…

    So I’m a little tired this morning as I type this after spending a restless night without power which went out about 4:30 yesterday afternoon and as of this moment it is still not back on.  Let me say you never know how many things in your house have annoying battery backups that will go out and start beeping in the middle of the night until you have a nice long 12 hour power outage and you are left fumbling for the source of the beeping in the dark.

    And it’s really no fun when at 5:45 the security alarm back up goes out which now wakes up the whole neighborhood but you just can’t see them all flip on their lights because they don’t have power either. But you hear them and their dogs barking over your poor dog barking too. What a mess.

    All that said, I’m up. And hopeful that the lights will be on soon. And I’m grateful for my up the hill neighbor and friend with power and coffee. And later I’m going to buy some more D batteries before the snow comes and real bad weather hits.

     

    Have a good Wednesday!

     

    Best,

    Kwana

     

    image fm here

     

    Update: I got back into the light a little after 12 noon. Feeling all fancy with light flipping and laundry drying. Whee!!! 

  • my view,  writing life

    Moto Mama- Riding Out Of The Zone…

    Happy Tuesday!

     

    It was gorgeous weather in NY this holiday weekend and today with downpours and expected flooding I’m so happy I got to get out and enjoy it. Speaking of getting out and enjoying…this weekend I did something that I never thought I’d do (but kind of secretly always wanted to) and in the name of research, I stepped out of my comfort zone and went for it.

    I rode on a motorcycle for the first time!

    Now for a total fraidy cat like me this is a huge deal. But you see in the book that I’m currently working on my hero rides a motorcycle and of course has to give my heroine a ride or two. Stop laughing.

    Now I have quite the imagination and can flow with making up how I think she would feel being on the bike but I really wanted to experience it for myself. And thanks to a great friend and neighbor and her kind motorcycle riding friend (Thanks so much!), there I was going for my first ride. That a thrill!

    I think My DH was in total shock as I rode off. The last time I was on a bike it was on a moped over 20 years ago in the Bahamas on our honeymoon and I may have shrieked in his ear the whole time.  This time I made it through with more smiles than shrieks and now I’m ready to rock my on the bike scenes after facing my fear and doing something completely out of my comfort zone.

     

     

    Tell me is there anything you are waiting to step out of the zone and do?

     

    Best,

    Kwana

  • my view

    9/11 – Shifting but Never Forgetting

    This is always a tough day to write a post. Your (my) heart is firmly in the past, but then you look at the calendar and 11 years have gone by. They say time heals all wounds but I’m not all that sure about hearts. I guess all we really can do is shift our focus. Today I will still think of the past, there is no way around that. But as I count my blessings, thinking of my now just about grown children that I dropped off in elementary school, that gloriously clear morning, and wait anxiously for my DH to return home from work, I will try and shift my focus to the future and to freedom.

     

    Wishing you a shift in the most positive of directions today.

     

    Best,

    Kwana

  • blogs,  book launch,  Books,  jack,  my view,  Through The Lens

    Babbling On…

    Happy Monday!

    Welcoming the week with a cheery smile and hoping you all had a great weekend. I had a great time as my fantastic block had is annual block party this weekend. Only postponed one day due to some scary storms and off tornadoes in New York, but the next day the sun was shining and the bouncy house came out.

    The Jackster got into trouble early off after stealing two hot dogs in two minutes. Showing everyone that he’s not fit for mixed company. So embarrassing but that’s the Jack.

    That said the party rolled on and today I’m a little tired but still ready to move and on my virtual blog tour.

    Today I’m Super Excited to be over at Kate’s  Babbling about Books babbling about Through The Lens. I’d love it if you’d stop on by and give my guest post a read. And after that please stay awhile. Kate has a fantastic review blog and I know you’ll become a fan as I am.

     

    Have a great Monday.

    Best,

    Kwana

  • blogs,  interviews,  my view,  writing,  writing life

    Not in Kansas anymore…

    Happy Sunday! I hope you are having a wonderful and safe weekend. Can you believe tornadoes in New York yesterday? Just wild! So not in Kansas that’s for sure. But all is well over here today with a bright blue sky and shining sun. The way it is after most stormy days I guess.

    Today I’m lucky enough to be over at fab author Becky Lower’s blog talking old romances and past influences. If you have a moment please stop on by here.

    Have a great one!

     

    Best,

    Kwana

     

    Image fm here

  • Books,  my view,  Through The Lens,  writing,  writing life

    Friday Goodness…

    Thanks so much for making this a wonderful launch week. It’s been so exciting and tons of fun. Over the next few weeks I will be popping up in different spots all over the web promoting Through The Lens and telling you all about it as I go. Yeah, I’m sure you’ll be tired of me before long, but please hang in there, no worries between you all and the Jackster my head won’t get all that big. LOL.

    But really, I can’t thank you all enough for sticking by me and encouraging me as I fought to make this dream come true. I actually do feel like I’ve won the crown this week!

    You have all my love. Have a wonderful weekend!

     

    K.M.J

    aka

    Me

     

    P.S. Don’t forget to enter the contest and tell 2 friends! Thanks!

     

    Image fm here

  • book launch,  Books,  marriage,  my view,  Through The Lens,  writing life

    Your Wife Wrote What?

    Good day folks. So last night I was cracking up as I watched as it started to really hit the DH that I was now published. While flipping back and forth between football and the DNC we were talking about the week so far and he turned to me and said, “So people have read the book? The WHOLE book?”

    With the way he said it I couldn’t help but laugh. Finally those jitters and butterflies over people reading your words that I had been talking about was hitting him and hard. I think it may be because he was kind enough to tell some people at work about TTL and one women went and downloaded it right away coming back to comment on my dedication to him.

    I just looked at him with what was probably a ‘duh dude’ face, but then I took in his nervous eyes and smiled. “Yep,” I said, “The WHOLE book. Hey, it was bound to happen one day.” Then he did that tight lip and run his hand over his forehead thing that he does and I wondered if a certain scenes were coming to his mind. I could practically feel his wheels spinning as he was probably second guessing if telling the folks at work was a good idea after all. Yep, it was funny to me.

    Sweet pretty release day congratulations flowers fm the DH

    Today I’m over at the fantastic Laura Simcox’s blog talking about Through The Lens, my hero and heroine and what a cheap date I happen to be (lucky DH).  Please stop on by here and see why.

     

    Best,

    Kwana